The past week has been horrifically painful for the Virginia Tech community and the entire country as we watched events unfold on that college campus. For those who have to deal with the aftermath of incidents involving violence and youth, a comment often heard is that "this kind of thing can't be stopped". In order to create the environment that builds positive youth development, there must be a consensus for us to get to the root of why people act out in violent, destructive and abusive ways. HCI focuses on a community's core values and spiritual health- those positive attitudes that can change the way we think about our world and the people in it.

A young man and his dad were on Oprah this week to share what they are doing to reach youth and bring about a change in thinking when it comes to violence, abuse, suicide, and more. Craig Scott witnessed his sister's murder at the hands of the Columbine shooters on April 20, 1999. Craig and his dad travel the country speaking to thousands of teens, every week, about their pain. They deliver this message with a positive spin- "foster an atmosphere of kindness and compassion" wherever possible as one way to stop violence. Craig urges students to focus on the positive because "where you choose to put your energy immediately is very important. We've focused on my sister, Rachel, who's so compassionate and kind - that's the opposite of that anger and hatred."

What does this mean to a community like ours?

It means we can have the opportunity for more conversations with each other to share challenges, offer help and seek solutions. It means we begin developing purposeful, long-term relationships that are strong and open, but most of all, it means we could see a resulting TRUST that will empower us to make a difference.

HCI suggests reading a book entitled "Engagement Is Not Enough" written by Keith E. Ayers that speaks to 4 Elements of TRUST that can change the culture of businesses. Applying this business principle to our community sectors and families, may hold the key to a safer, more compassionate and less violent world.

"This is the essence of my work and vision for HCI", states Dana Riker, HCI President. As a continuing weekly column that appears in this newspaper, there will be a very special PRESIDENT'S MESSAGE next week.

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